When you were just getting to know each other, you were on your best behavior.
Now that you’re comfortable with each other, things can start to slip without you even noticing.
So, you stopped working out and eating healthy and you’ve gained a few pounds. Or maybe you got into a bad habit of walking around in your pajamas all day.
Then there’s the hygiene stuff.
Do you talk with your mouth full of food, lick your fingers while eating, or slurp your soup?
A lot of the people who complain about their marriage or their spouse aren’t putting in the effort themselves. What if you started being more aware of how attractive your look to your spouse? Try acting like the old days when you were trying to win them over.
Bad habits are hard to break, but it’s worth the struggle.
Imagine what a difference it would make if you went the extra mile, without looking for praise and put in a consistent daily effort to get rid of your bad habits.
No more flossing in bed, picking at your teeth (in front of them, at least), or wearing sweats all day every day.
Look your best and be your best for your spouse and for you. After all, this is the real thing. This is your marriage! Give it the best you possibly can.
